The language difference is a very real thing and that will make meeting girls hard.
When you approach a girl during the day pretty much all you have to go on are your communication skills, and they are worth nothing now.
I doubt maturity is defined as paying for rubbing womens breasts.
You were not there ALONE, and you were not there with other EXPATS.
Mostly I was responding to the claim that my perceptions of what goes on in a KTV in terms of picking up the girls for the night is exagerated — which are not.
Some foreigners have a reputation here for being pump-and-dump fiends with the locals.