Belated Moral Dilemma: Several years ago when I was dating, I met someone and accidentally became pregnant one month after we met.
Maybe you can even encourage Rob to do more research on the mother you never knew to satisfy his own curiosity, and yours.
A: You were not officially a couple when this pregnancy happened, and you decided justifiably not to tell about ending it.
But the project to turn normalcy into a violation has to stop.
Of course there is sexual abuse, and we do not want to go back to a world in which it was ignored and covered up.
This friend, appropriately so I guess, told her mother.